Let's face it: Boyfriends, while awesome in many ways, are also pretty damn time-consuming. By the time we met up there was no conversation, it was virtually straight to sex.For the majority of guys, what really counts (and what they’ll reflect on) is the in which the sex happened. I mean, if the sex happened after hours of amazing conversation and genuine connection, that will most likely have good potential for a relationship.At least, it would at the very least not hurt you and might even help chances for a relationship.Not every guy will go for this (he might not be in that place), but if he is, he might just begin walking down that path with you.Now you mentioned that you have some pretty aggressive role-playing and sexual interplay.
So on the one hand, if you went in there and had sex with virtually no connection established other than some playful, sexy banter and verbal foreplay, that will work against you in terms of being evaluated as a relationship partner.Not just sex, but really aggressive, dirty sex and sexual role-playing. I can tell he lusts for me, but given the way this started out I don’t know that there’s a chance any relationship could come out of this.A turning point came where he started showing another side of himself. I’m not a clingy/needy type of girl and I give him space, but if there were any possibility of this becoming something more I’d like to pursue it.Then name a body part of yours (breast, neck, knee). You each have 24 hours to give the other person a kiss in the most exciting place you can think of—the crest of a mountain, the top of the Empire State Building, the back seat of a limo, whatever. Ditch your clothes, and spritz a dollop of whipped cream onto any part of your body where you'd love for him to put his lips. But it's one of the quickest and easiest ways to connect with him.So for this challenge, you have to kiss each other at 10 different times throughout the day—like pop your head in the shower for a steamy smooch, or push him against the side of a building when you're walking to dinner.